{"product_id":"getting-to-i-do-by-pat-allen-sandra-harmon-rare-books","title":"Getting to 'I Do' by Pat Allen| Sandra Harmon [rare books]","description":"\u003carticle class=\"text-token-text-primary w-full focus:outline-none [--shadow-height:45px] has-data-writing-block:pointer-events-none has-data-writing-block:-mt-(--shadow-height) has-data-writing-block:pt-(--shadow-height) [\u0026amp;:has([data-writing-block])\u0026gt;*]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]\" dir=\"auto\" data-turn-id=\"request-WEB:333c103b-886e-43e0-9e6b-ec7a0f2eed08-4\" data-testid=\"conversation-turn-10\" data-scroll-anchor=\"true\" data-turn=\"assistant\" tabindex=\"-1\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"text-base my-auto mx-auto pb-10 [--thread-content-margin:--spacing(4)] thread-sm:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(6)] thread-lg:[--thread-content-margin:--spacing(16)] px-(--thread-content-margin)\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"[--thread-content-max-width:40rem] thread-lg:[--thread-content-max-width:48rem] mx-auto max-w-(--thread-content-max-width) flex-1 group\/turn-messages focus-visible:outline-hidden relative flex w-full min-w-0 flex-col agent-turn\" tabindex=\"-1\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col grow\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"0111d2d4-468a-4545-9d0a-ddf4e2e5b59d\" dir=\"auto\" class=\"min-h-8 text-message relative flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 text-start break-words whitespace-normal [.text-message+\u0026amp;]:mt-1\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-5-1\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[1px]\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"markdown prose dark:prose-invert w-full break-words light markdown-new-styling\"\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"69\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"0\" data-end=\"69\"\u003eBook Summary \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"71\" data-end=\"1021\"\u003e\u003cem data-start=\"71\" data-end=\"90\"\u003eGetting to “I Do”\u003c\/em\u003e is a relationship guide that explains how understanding masculine and feminine energy dynamics can help people create lasting, committed partnerships. Dr. Pat Allen argues that successful relationships depend on partners choosing and consistently embodying either the masculine role (leading, providing direction, making decisions) or the feminine role (receiving, supporting, inspiring vision). The book outlines how mismatched or fluctuating energies can lead to conflict, confusion, or emotional distance. Through practical exercises, communication strategies, and real-life examples, Allen teaches readers how to identify their core energy, set healthy boundaries, express needs without manipulation, and make choices aligned with long-term commitment. The goal is to empower individuals to break unhealthy patterns, date with clarity, and build relationships that naturally progress toward emotional fulfillment and marriage.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"1023\" data-end=\"1077\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"1023\" data-end=\"1077\"\u003eAbout the Authors: \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"1079\" data-end=\"1734\" data-is-last-node=\"\" data-is-only-node=\"\"\u003eDr. Pat Allen is a psychotherapist, relationship counselor, and communication expert known for her work on gender polarity, interpersonal boundaries, and honest communication in romantic relationships. With decades of clinical experience, she has developed a direct, structured approach that blends psychology, behavioral science, and her signature “masculine–feminine energy” framework. Sandra Harmon, a writer and producer, collaborated with Allen to help translate her teachings into an engaging, accessible format. Together, they created a book that distills Allen’s therapeutic methods into practical tools for anyone seeking healthy, committed love.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"z-0 flex min-h-[46px] justify-start\"\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"mt-3 w-full empty:hidden\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"text-center\"\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/article\u003e","brand":"Clapping Pages","offers":[{"title":"Used","offer_id":45371980349626,"sku":"36HN0Q9Z5-Used","price":59.0,"currency_code":"AED","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0713\/5576\/0826\/files\/gt_9c14e8c1-6f18-4a2a-ad4e-c712d26c35a3.jpg?v=1764228426","url":"https:\/\/clappingpages.com\/products\/getting-to-i-do-by-pat-allen-sandra-harmon-rare-books","provider":"Clapping Pages","version":"1.0","type":"link"}